4 More Gifts to Support Others That Power Your After Age 50 Reinvention

 

Gold Gift Box

Gold Gift Box

  

Reinventing You Book ImageNote: This post continues thoughts from 4 Gifts to Give Others to Power Your After Age 50 Reinvention. It's fifth in a series of seven (7) describing successful career reinvention after age 50 by applying principles from Dorie Clark's amazing book, Reinventing You.

Reinventing You's Chapter 9: Reintroduce Yourself: "Develop Validators" is the focus of this post.

 

4 More Gifts to Support Others That Power Your After Age 50 Reinvention

1. Write a LinkedIn Recommendation for Someone You Care About

  
Recruiters Love LinkedIn. LinkedIn may not be as sexy as Facebook or Snapchat but 259+ million members can't be wrongRecruiters and employers constantly search LinkedIn for passive job seekers (defined as someone who currently has a job but would be open to taking a better one). This phenomenon drove $224.7 million in 2013 Q3 revenue for LinkedIn Talent Solutions.

Praise Others so They Know They're Good at What They Do. LinkedIn Recommendations help your colleagues and friends promote their personal brands. They're also an important gesture to support people who may have lost their jobs due to company reorganizations.

Writing an unprompted or unsolicited recommendation without expecting anything in return makes a LinkedIn Recommendation a powerful gift because:

  • You can vouch for another person's expertise and skills (similar to a LinkedIn Endorsement) 
  • Your friend / colleague may feel awkward requesting a recommendation
  • Your recommendation can enhance another person's LinkedIn Profile

Who Can You Support with a LinkedIn Recommendation? Show you're not "just looking out for number 1." It's a great way to thank and acknowledge others who've been integral to your individual success.

 

LinkedIn Recommendations

Recommendations You Give Show Up on Your LinkedIn Profile

2. Encourage Others in LinkedIn Discussions 

Social Media ReInvention Community Members know how much I enjoy The Start-Up of YOU LinkedIn Discussion Group. Participating in LinkedIn Discussions (or initiating discussion topics) is a great way to:

  • Demonstrate your expertise in a specific field or industry
  • Develop credibility and a thought leader reputation
  • Learn from and make new connections with like-minded people 

Show Your Acknowledgement and Appreciation. When you initiate discussion topics, it's great when other members submit comments and opinions. Thank them with an encouraging tone for "putting themselves out there." Acknowledge them and express your appreciation for their input (especially if their thoughts counter yours).

Submitting Comments and Participating in Discussion Forums Requires Personal Risk. That's why people may hesitate submitting a comment for fear of criticism from either you or other members. If you're the discussion moderator, establish a positive tone. Provide encouragement early and consistently.

Encouraging and validating others in your LinkedIn Discussion shows respect, flexibility, and openness: 

 

LinkedIn Discussion Encouragement

Encouragement Fosters LinkedIn Group Participation

3. Say Thank You on Twitter #FF (Follow Fridays)

An Underrated Validator. I love #FF or Twitter Follow Fridays. Recognizing the contributions of smart and interesting members is fundamental to the Twitter Commuity.

State Why Someone Deserves the #FF Mention. Differentiate the individual (and yourself) by describing why another person is worth following. The most common mistake in Follow Fridays is the common "mass communication" #FF "Insert As Many Twitter Handles as I Can in 140 Characters or Less Without Saying Why:"

 

Bad #FollowFriday Example

The Mass Communication #FF #Follow Friday Mistake

Be Different. Put thought and creativity in your #FF tweet. Make your #FF tweets more memorable and separate them from the mass communication pack:

Favorited #FF Tweet 1

Example #1: Describe Why You #FF'd Someone

 

Favorited #FF Tweet 2

Example 2: Describe Why You #FF'd Someone

4. Share Klout +K's With Your Online Friends and Fans

How Influential Are You in the Social Media Universe? Since 2008, Klout.com has attempted to answer this question. The premise behind Klout is that our collective social media participation and influence can be captured, measured, and scored

Your Klout Score Can Have Important Career Implications. According to Seth Stevenson's Wired.com article, What Your Klout Score Really Means, your score matters (especially if you work in or aspire to work in online media). If you actively participate in social media, be aware of your score. 

Share +K's to Help Others Build Influence. Identify the people who support you and spread your ideas. Acknowledge and thank them. Reward their support with Klout +K's in specific topics like Twitter, Social Media, or Blogging.

Giving your friends and fans +K's signals to others that they share great content

Providing +K's in the New Klout Platform. Here are the basic steps:

  1. Find the Klout Profile of the person you'd like to give the +K
  2. Locate the Klout topic you want to select
  3. Hover your cursor over the topic to select it (the topic should become red)
  4. Select that topic and give the +K

 

Imrich Tatiersky Klout +K

Steps 1 and 2 to Give +K's in New Klout Platform

 

Martin Drdak Klout +K

Steps 3 and 4 to Give +K's in New Klout Platform

 

Closing Thoughts

Give and You Will Receive. Be generous to others. Be kind. Support others and third party validation takes care of itself.

What Do You Think? Please let me know in your comments.

If you enjoyed this post, here are the others in the series:

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3 Ways to Show Appreciation for Others in an Uncertain Job Market

High 5 on a Bike

High Five on a Bike

 

Do You Hate Your Job?  Americans Do — A Lot.

15% of Americans Surveyed Hate Their Jobs — The Highest in a Global Survey. According to research and the following infographic by Yahoo Finance, Monster Worldwide, and GFK, American workers are the most dissatisfied among seven (7) global countries.  31% of Americans workers rated themselves as "satisfied."

Yahoo Finance Infographic - Americans #1 in Hating Their Jobs

Yahoo Finance Infographic: Americans #1 in Hating Their Jobs

The following image from Sydney Brownstone's Fast Company article highlights describes the seven country respondent breakdown:

 

Fast Company - Americans Hate Their Jobs the Most

Image from Sydney Brownstone's Fast Company Article: Everyone In The World Hates Their Jobs–But Americans Hate Theirs The Most

Have We Forgotten How to Show Our Appreciation for Others?

Possible Root Causes Americans Hate Their Jobs Compared to Other Countries.  Ms. Brownstone cites these facts:

Is There More to This? Here's one more item for consideration:   

The American Worker DOES NOT Feel Appreciated

205 Million Google Search Results.  The following search phrase: "do americans feel appreciated at work?" delivers sobering results.    

Do americans feel appreciated at work  - Google Search

Google Search Results: Do Americans Feel Appreciated at Work?

 

3 Ways to Show We Appreciate Others 

Using Technology to Say "Thank You" and "I Appreciate You."  In a 24/7, always-on, Internet Age, the power of direct relationships matter more than ever.  Let's not forget to use that technology (and some olders ones) to let people know we appreciate them by:  

1. Picking Up the Phone.  I'm guilty of this more than any one (because sending an email is fast and convenient – more on that in a moment).  But, actually hearing someone's voice and genuinely telling them how he/she makes a positive difference IS MEANINGFUL.  

When did pleasant, I wanna give you a high-five, non-confrontational conversation become a dying art form?  Thank you caller ID.  How many times have have you seen a certain number flashing on your mobile phone, and you default to not picking up.  Why do we automatically assume: "What's wrong this time?"

Let's gradually address that negative trend in our own minds (and our colleagues).  Why not call her to say, "The only reason we're at this point with XYZ client is because of you.  Thank You. I couldn't get to this point without you."

The positive impact and reaction may surprise you … 

2. Using the Email CC: to Praise Versus CYA.  Email was the first social network.  Warner Bros. released this hit twenty-two years before The Social Network

 

 

Thank Teammates AND Inform Their Bosses of How Much We Appreciate a Job Well Done.  How about using email to:

  • Let others know the important difference they made during an important client pitch
  • Acknowledge the extra efforts made to craft a simple storyline to a complex, final deliverable
  • Show gratefulness when another teammate opens doors to contacts relevant to our sales and business development efforts

AND, inform that person's boss and other key management team members of this teammate's significant contribution via the email CC:.  

A subject line stating: "Thank You for a Job Well Done" isn't half bad either.

3. Spreading Kindness Via Twitter's #FF #FollowFriday.  Twitter isn't considered much of a "bright and shiny object" anymore.  But, I'm still a believer (as are others).   

#FF or #FollowFriday Is a Great Way to Acknowledge People / Organizations Who Give Versus Take.  Take time to personalize a tweet stating why you think others should follow other helpful individuals or organizations.  On The Internet, random acts of kindness equal great karma: 

 

Twitter #FF #FollowFriday Example

#FF #FollowFriday

 

Something to Think About as We Approach the Thanksgiving Holiday


Am I Doing My Part?
  After reading the aforementioned articles, I questioned if I'm consistently letting my colleagues, clients, and online connections know how much I appreciate their contributions to my professional success.

I'm Not.

I'm an Account Director in a management consulting firm.   My job is to build relationships and directly connect my clients to talented team members who I believe can address challenging problems.  How well my teammates and I collectively build these relationships and collectively address these problems is the final and only relevant success metric. 


"It takes a village" is a reality in my business. 


This Goes Beyond Thankfulness for Having a Job.
  For the past four (4) Thanksgivings, one of the many blessings I'm grateful for is being employed.  But, that's not enough.  I need to do a better job of thanking every teammate who helped me and our clients succeed in a challenging year.

Thank You Kantar Health Teammates.  My success is yours.

Thank You to my clients who stuck with me and our team.  I know the daily financial pressures confronting you.

Thank You to the wonderful people I connect online with everyday.  YOU show me why the power of The Internet and direct relationships matter.

 

May You and Your Families Have a Safe & Happy Thanksgiving.

 

Tony Faustino is a marketing and corporate strategist.  He writes about how The Internet reinvents marketing strategy for organizations and individuals in his marketing strategy blog, Social Media ReInvention.  Follow his tweets @tonyfaustino or circle him on Google+. 

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